Monday, April 14, 2008

long lasting debate......

It's funny when people discuss Love Marriage vs Arranged.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered.


Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.


Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?

It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!


Why do Bride & Groom exchange varmaala during wedding ?

To tell each other affectionately... Sweetheart U R Dead !


We have read these and laughed our heart out at or just thought how true. or all crap..

but these days the trend is changing i feel so..more to LM(Love marriage).

i did a survey in ma office and got really cool answers...
* names changed
  • RK:Lm would have been the best option but not now...Any reason umhhhhhh .but "u never know"
In short:Love is a sweet poison wrapped in an attractive cover...lol..
:Life serves diff deserts for everyone...


  • AS: Kash koi pata leta yaar college mein...ab jhelna to nahin padta...poor guy have to go through all those snaps and then finalize which one he wants to take on for life...Messy situation as in how can one decide by looking at the snap whether is a right choice .as Arranged marriges are a big risk ????YYYYYYY :arre baba u dnt know what the person turns out to be . okkkkkk
both of them would be goddie to each other before marriage in arranged marriages but the real self wld be after marriage only..lol....

In short: Pls help me get a like minded female...


  • SD: Kar lo yaar!!!!risk to dono mein hi hein....lol...as in is suicide better or murder..
In short :You are at risk in both of them .



  • SS:"Idont know "(expression were like he was confused as what to say???)
I never decided u know????(how could a person say like that..)
Its a certainly NO RISK relation..as in 2 sides of a coin (umhhh interesting)Wld prefer arrange marriage as i have done....
A person should gel with you ok..thoughts and frequency should match..and there is no harm if family is good and there backgrounds are sound ...(Thoda philosophical hein but its really true)
Inshort: ..ho gayi na ab shaadi
For everyone else: Happy Independence Day



  • DA: Marriage as an institution is beautiful,itself is a risk whether being love or arranged is a diff level.


  • PS: Only arranged Marriage as my parents are best to decide for me...( * Still such species exists)

  • HO:LM is better a)u know each other b)get along wellc)yes there is adjustment at some times so is in the case of arranged marriages and that too all the time..(be it a girl or a guyArranged marriages u get "TYPICAL HUSBAND TYPES"!!!!!!!!!!ll
LOL..........


so the debate is still on.....



Monday, April 07, 2008

Nostalgia............Those Days!!!!!!!!


Awarapan banjarapan Ek........
was in tears last night when i heard this song,my hostel life just came live in front of my eyes.. song was like an anthem.as soon as we use to enter our hostel rooms the first thing to do was to play the song...
then 8 of us on that floor would continue with the daily routines .Dinner time was fun only and only GOSSSIPSSSSSSSS anything other than that was bore..how we use to sit in one room and gossip about the proff. bitching about girls and guys and last but not the least Proff. Bamb till the wee hours of mornings...
It was a hell lotta fun at times making poha at 4 in the morning and then late the other day...
Exams were fun instead of nightmare's bet we really enjoyed those coffee rounds and grilled sandwitches...
ours was a seprate floor where by god's grace had like minded females,the floor above was nothing better than a WWF wrestling arena...with fights and queues for the routines..hehehehe Lucky us!!!!!!!!!!
Those discussions over the topics studied and a discreet competition in each one...I do remember our supplychain exam... god sent Prashant as our SOS o sonal,roopen me,neetal,girija who had not studied this paper ... Prashant rocked the subject and that 1 hr of our gurukul and we all came up with the so called flying colours....
Fights at the wada pav tapri ..for not giving due importance b/w prashant and puja ohhh ma would never forgettttt.neither the hidden jealousy of ppl and last but not the least our friendship..
how when we use to do a tripsy on p 'bike me ,neetal and prashant ..i knw you guys would have given me loads of teeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaa.but by Gods grace both of them are happily married,..
Amrita being the most simple girl who by the end of the MBA groomed up to a smart female ,but our 's was a lovely friendship as she used to help in all the ways out same with neetal and sonal..
But MBA was an out an out a
diff world as compared to my Dad's world of protection..here was the world to know about the diff kinds of species prevailing..and Its not what ppl showcase themself as ..
And those days of placements where seven in the morning we are running ...u know yyyyy..reach campus in 5 min ..rushing with those 6yards wrapped around and figiting here and there ..just praying God this be the last company for me...
and alas back ..you are not allowed only IIMM ..our Main Stream..we the branches..But the branches rocked more ..
evenings used to be at Nandu's Tapri or Dilli chat or raj better Gd 's which movie should we see .sm saw lagan , amitabh too aired for sm groups ,but ous was the scary forte...
3 years and Everyone is excelling in their own fields...lots i can write and go on writing but i have to sleep and go to office tomorrow..
Purani jeans aur guitar.!!!!!!!!
mauhalle ki woh chat aur mere yaar..
woh ciggratte pena gali mein jake woh gane gana yaroo ke sath
bas yadein yadein yadein reh jati hein kuch choti choti batein reh jati yadein!!!!!!!!!!

Shit its 2.30 in the moring and only 6 hrs to get up agin...
Oh i love those college days!!!!!!!!!1

Friday, April 04, 2008

buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

it a day before ma financial year closing ....n am very bored today...so am writing ...i am bored ..
nothing is to be done.
had a cuppa coffee ..still time left no reply from my client ,2 said no would not be interested in taking the subscription ..
they all should go to hell.... i am disappointed yaar as i have still 3lakhs to be covered for the Annual.,but nothing is wrkn towards it....
i did orkutting,uploaded snaps,,chatting bhi ho gayi..ab kya kareeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..:)
we are waiting for the cheques to pour ,or the deals to close ..aleast till the D day ...
my colleague is pissed havent got approval for the deal client is ready to pay but the Sr aint approving ...sales indeed..heheheheheh
CHANDAMAMA SO GAYE SURAJ CJACHU JAGE...
HATH MEIN FOLDERS LIYE SALES WALE BHAGE,
EK CLOSING KHATAM HUI TO DUJI SHURI HOGAYI MAMU.......


jANE KYA HOGA RAMA RE ..JANE KYA HOGA MAULA RE ...

HALF THE PPL WLD GO MAD ,TILL THE D DAY SMONE WLD MAKE IT SM WLD JUST SLIP ..JUST MISS...

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

Dieting !!!god pls noooo

Food ohhh i really love to eat n cook both...
but dieting is a waord out of my dictionary...i dnt understand how can ppl not eat..yaar world is full of chocolates, pastries,burgers,pizza's,chole bhature,tikki ,chat n umhhh my mouth is watering...by mere thought of it...
how can a person resist such mouth watering delicacies ...yummm.just imagine chocolate mousse and my dieting plan just vanishes....
It was the day one of my diet plan aka GM diet..i was all charged up that yes would at least loose 2 kg.and no this time i am not gonna break the rules at all.I pasted my diet plan on my freezing machine upna "Fridge" so that as and when am upto smthing i cld see the PLAN blowing up hello u r dieting!!!!!!!!
and as the day passed was very happy that yeah..am halfway through..and then all in waters ...as my sneezing attack woke up again.......shit!!!!damn the first day and am sitting and eating khichdii with lots of saturated fat "bole to Ghee ".
actually to stop sneezing you need to intake smthing hot which blocks ur sensory passage for smtime..like coffee or so..but as you know ummmh khichdi is ma fav so here goes my dieting in dumps.
so the diet was still on but with sm addition and deletion of so call fibrous food ..Though i love Fruits and fibrous vegetable but i really want something "desi " at one time bole to "made of "vegetable King " aka Potato..hhehehehe

But i finally gave up..and thought its not my cuppa of coffee..
Kahani abhi khatam nahin hui...am still on HELLO not for dieting dear but dancing which is a hell lotta fun.....
cheers!!!!!
May GOD help me atleast start with my classes..AMEN...

Astrology,palmistry n there it goes....

i would not say i never believe in such things but it smtimes is so true that the heart take over the mind,no matter how much you try to be practical..it was the other day when we were out to chokhi dhani,when for just fun i showed my hand to a palmist..n to my surprise things were coming as though someone's reading ma life.....
But am i believing the things cause i want to...i want those things rather all good things to be true...

i dont know but this subject really interests me..how can a person just read lines of your hands or the forehead and read ur life..or expose you to the unseen realities...
Sometime i feel it s a study a science still left to be unfold..but at times it is what the hell yaar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but the bottom line is :::::..its all in the mind which i want to believe...?????still the struggle continues b/w the heart and the mind ..practical or to be illogical ..dnt know whether its the right word...
But where would all our film industry progress without the taro's and astros and palmers.????
where will be the KKKKk saga then .. n what would our moms ,aunts indulge into.n all those who BODMAS their names ..for the sake of good luck charm success ..............

Though i too mite not think twice to see ma future ...but at times its good for things to come as they are destined to,.