Monday, April 14, 2008

long lasting debate......

It's funny when people discuss Love Marriage vs Arranged.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered.


Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.


Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?

It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!


Why do Bride & Groom exchange varmaala during wedding ?

To tell each other affectionately... Sweetheart U R Dead !


We have read these and laughed our heart out at or just thought how true. or all crap..

but these days the trend is changing i feel so..more to LM(Love marriage).

i did a survey in ma office and got really cool answers...
* names changed
  • RK:Lm would have been the best option but not now...Any reason umhhhhhh .but "u never know"
In short:Love is a sweet poison wrapped in an attractive cover...lol..
:Life serves diff deserts for everyone...


  • AS: Kash koi pata leta yaar college mein...ab jhelna to nahin padta...poor guy have to go through all those snaps and then finalize which one he wants to take on for life...Messy situation as in how can one decide by looking at the snap whether is a right choice .as Arranged marriges are a big risk ????YYYYYYY :arre baba u dnt know what the person turns out to be . okkkkkk
both of them would be goddie to each other before marriage in arranged marriages but the real self wld be after marriage only..lol....

In short: Pls help me get a like minded female...


  • SD: Kar lo yaar!!!!risk to dono mein hi hein....lol...as in is suicide better or murder..
In short :You are at risk in both of them .



  • SS:"Idont know "(expression were like he was confused as what to say???)
I never decided u know????(how could a person say like that..)
Its a certainly NO RISK relation..as in 2 sides of a coin (umhhh interesting)Wld prefer arrange marriage as i have done....
A person should gel with you ok..thoughts and frequency should match..and there is no harm if family is good and there backgrounds are sound ...(Thoda philosophical hein but its really true)
Inshort: ..ho gayi na ab shaadi
For everyone else: Happy Independence Day



  • DA: Marriage as an institution is beautiful,itself is a risk whether being love or arranged is a diff level.


  • PS: Only arranged Marriage as my parents are best to decide for me...( * Still such species exists)

  • HO:LM is better a)u know each other b)get along wellc)yes there is adjustment at some times so is in the case of arranged marriages and that too all the time..(be it a girl or a guyArranged marriages u get "TYPICAL HUSBAND TYPES"!!!!!!!!!!ll
LOL..........


so the debate is still on.....



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